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i realise a common trend in sumth..
i was checking out some blogs,
i realise there would sure be one post about quarrelling with our parents..
especially our mothers...
like, take for example," why they think this is not suitable for us, why they have care about this so much, why this and why that."
i'm a daughter too.
and just two post ago, i blogged about my mother being unreasonable..
scolding me for stuffs that she shouldn't scold me for..
what i actually failed to do was to look at the problem from her perspective.
she's a mother, and a human too..
i mean,
there are so many things beyond our control like anger.
she's a human... obviously other than showing their anger, what else can they do?
if she's going to swallow that anger, i'm so sure it's gonna explode one day.. and besides, the kids don't learn. they'll do it over and over again.
For a mother, responsibilities are more than we could actually name...
all parents want their kids to be the best, or, to their greatest potential.
well, my whole point here is,
before blaming our parents, check thoroughly whether there's sumthing wrong with us first..
Everyone makes mistakes, even our parents too..
but if all the blame goes to the parents, it's gonna be wrong..
whenever my mum goes, "go have a daughter like yourself, and you would know how i feel.. i'll see how you handle it..." (yeah, without my father)
i really reflect on myself, because i wouldn't want my daughter to be like myself..
my father's been staying in thailand for more than 12 years now,
and all the responsibilities are pushed to my mum in terms of discipline, education, everything a person has to learn.
and i have to say, in education wise, i really disappointed her alot...
it wasn't just one but twice.
see?
so the more i understand why my mum would be so aggitated with me and trying to be firm..
who doesn't want the best for their children..

after some thought,
i don't wanna have a kid...
gosh.. look at the whole parenting life..
okay.
enough of that dready stuffs.

i'm loving my job.. =0)
the kids are awesome but like i said, scared already, have kids can die..